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Destination · Playful
Vintage · Playful
Checked Out digital wedding invitation
A manila library card tucked into its kraft pocket, your names written on the borrower lines in blue ballpoint. The wedding date is rubber-stamped in purple as the due date, under earlier “Reserved” and “Renewed” stamps.
3 palettes
Free to design, no signup. Send from $19, one time, no subscription.
5.0 on The Knot26,000+ couples2.5M+ texts sent
Also available as a Checked Out digital save the date.
About the design
Checked Out, in detail
As an invitation, Checked Out holds the full set of details: your names, the ceremony date and time, the venue and a line about the reception. The suggested wording opens with “The Wedding of” and closes with “Dinner and dancing to follow”. Each guest gets it as a text with their own link. Tapping it turns over an envelope addressed to them, lifts the wax seal and slides the card out, with an RSVP button underneath.
Checked Out sits in our vintage and playful collections and comes in 3 palettes, Manila, Dusty Blue and Kraft, built around tan, purple and dusty blue. In the customizer you can switch palettes, edit your names, date, time, venue and the card's opening and closing lines, and choose the envelope liner, wax seal and stamp before you make an account.
Nothing in the artwork ties it to a time of year, so it works as well for a June garden party as for a December evening reception. Invitations usually go out six to eight weeks before the wedding, or ten to twelve for a destination wedding, and replies land on your guest list as guests open their envelopes.
What your guests see
Opened, not just delivered
Every invitation reaches guests as a text, then opens like real mail.
- 01
A text with their name in it
Each guest gets an ordinary text and their own link. No app, no account, no email to dig out.
- 02
An envelope addressed to them
It turns over, the wax seal lifts and the card slides out, addressed to the guest or their whole household.
- 03RSVP
The card, then the RSVP
Guests read your invitation and reply in a tap. Their answer lands on your guest list.
Included
Everything that comes with Checked Out
Designing is free. Every plan to send it includes all of this, from invitation to wedding day.
- A text to every guest with their own link
- An envelope addressed to each guest or household
- RSVPs recorded on your guest list, with reminder texts
- A free test text to yourself before anyone else sees it
- Replies from guests in one inbox, not a reply-all
- The same guest list for the invitation, RSVPs and wedding-day texts
From couples
Couples who texted their invitations
Rated 5.0 on The Knot by couples who used Text My Wedding for save the dates, invitations, RSVPs and wedding-week updates.
Text my wedding has been so useful and convenient. It allowed us to send wedding invites and RSVP's to all our wedding guest at once. The fact the guest could easily RSVP using the link was perfect! The site allows you to see when the guest open the text as well, so you know they received it. It was user friendly. I also used the site to send a big thank you message after the wedding. However, i waited too long to send the thank you message, and my site expired. Without hesitation the staff extended our expiration date to allow me to send the thank you message. I highly recommend this site. 5 stars!
Darla W.
The Knot · Jan 8, 2025Currently using Text My Wedding to help keep my guests in the loop. We sent out digital save the dates and an engagement party invite and it was so easy! USPS is unreliable these days, so I like that we have a way to keep guests in the loop and can send text reminders to everyone!
Riley B.
The Knot · Apr 15, 2024This was an excellent service for our wedding! You never realize how much you need it until you use it! We used it to send out invitations and collect RSVPs, and then for last minute logistics communications
Sean M.
The Knot · Apr 15, 2024
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Questions
The Checked Out invitation: common questions
Can I change the wording and colors on the Checked Out invitation?
Yes. You can edit your names, date, time, venue and the card's opening and closing lines, and Checked Out comes in 3 palettes: Manila, Dusty Blue and Kraft. You can also choose the envelope liner, wax seal and stamp. All of it is free to try before you make an account.
How much do digital wedding invitations cost?
Designing is free, and you don't need an account to start. Texting yourself a test is free too. To send to your guest list, you pick a one-time plan, starting at $19, sized by how many texts you plan to send. There is no subscription, no coins and no charge per card or per guest.
Do my guests need an app or an account?
No. Guests receive an ordinary text message. Tapping the link opens the card in their phone's web browser, on iPhone or Android, with nothing to download and nothing to sign in to.
Can guests RSVP from the invitation?
Yes. When you set up RSVPs for your event, an RSVP button appears as soon as a guest opens their envelope, and each response is recorded against that guest on your list. You can then text reminders to anyone who hasn't answered.
Can I send a save the date and an invitation in the same design?
Yes. Every design comes as both a save the date and an invitation, so you can send matching cards months apart to the same guest list.
Can I send to guests with international phone numbers?
Text My Wedding sends to US and Canadian phone numbers. Guests with those numbers still receive texts while traveling abroad, as long as their carrier supports international service. Numbers from other countries are not supported yet.
Start now
Make Checked Out yours.
Add your names, date and venue, pick a palette and preview the envelope. It's free, and there's nothing to sign up for until you send.
Free to design, no signup. Send from $19, one time, no subscription.