Is this an AI thank-you note generator like ChatGPT?
No, and that is deliberate. It is a deterministic engine: a written phrase bank plus a seeded picker that runs in your browser, so there is no model, no server and no account behind it. That is what lets us say your gift list never leaves the page, and it is why there is no credit limit — nothing costs us anything per note. The trade is honest: it will not improvise about your specific aunt. It gets you a correct, specific draft in seconds, and you add the one sentence only you could write.
How many thank-you notes can I generate?
As many as you want. There is no cap, no credit counter, no signup and no daily limit, and you can re-roll any note as often as you like. Batch mode walks up to 200 rows in a single pass, which covers all but the largest guest lists — if yours is longer, run it in two batches.
Does my gift list get uploaded when I generate thank-you notes?
No. The names, gift descriptions and pasted rows you type stay in your browser tab: the notes are assembled locally, there is no API route behind the tool, and no text you type is ever transmitted. The page does send blunt analytics events — that the tool was used, which situation and tone were picked, and roughly how large a batch was, all fixed options and coarse bands — and there is no code path that could put your text into one. Nothing is stored on our side, attached to an account, or used to train anything. Closing the tab discards it all.
Can the generator write a thank-you note that is already months late?
Three months after the wedding is the standard deadline, and The Knot's widely quoted version tightens it for gifts that arrived before the day — two weeks for those, three months for everything after. Past that, send it anyway: a note a year late is still far better than none, and the people waiting are not keeping score, they are wondering whether the gift arrived. Set the how-late selector and the note apologizes once, briefly, and does not explain.
Is the wedding thank-you note generator really free?
Yes — free, unlimited, and with nothing to buy or sign up for. We make money if you later use Text My Wedding to text your guests for their mailing addresses, which is the problem the notes create rather than the one they solve. You never have to, and the generator does not change if you don't.
Should I still handwrite the thank-you note it gives me?
Yes — that is the answer nobody can argue with. The guides agree on one floor: a printed message with a printed signature is not a thank-you card. Above that they split, with a practical camp accepting a printed card carrying a handwritten paragraph on a very large list and a traditional camp accepting nothing but a pen. Use the generator to find the words and to stop rewriting the same opening sentence forty times, then copy it onto the card in your own hand.
Do the thank-you notes mention how much money someone gave?
Never. Thanking someone for "the $500" turns a card into a receipt, and it lands badly when two relatives compare notes. The generator thanks people for their generosity and names what the money is going toward instead — that is the plan, not the number, and it is what makes the card specific.