Compose the message
- Open the event dashboard and choose Messages.
- Write the text.
- Use Personalize to insert a guest's first or last name, household name, everyone invited in their party, or one of your custom properties such as a table number.
- Use To to choose all guests, groups, or individual guests.
Guests in overlapping selected groups receive one copy. The confirmation shows the final eligible recipient count.

Add optional content
- Choose Photo or video for one media attachment.
- Open More message tools for a map, RSVP Form, Address Collection form, Attachment Page, or Hotel Room Blocks.
- Paste a normal destination URL; Text My Wedding shortens supported links to
tmwed.usfor delivery and tracking.
Send a test first
Choose Just me under To and send a test. Check personalization, links, media, and sender number on your phone.
What guests receive first
Before a guest's first text from your event, Text My Wedding automatically sends them a one-time notice: “You've been subscribed to receive notifications for [event name] from Text My Wedding. Message frequency varies. You can text HELP for help, or STOP to opt-out.” Your message follows. Each guest receives this notice only once for the event.
Send now
Select the final groups, choose the immediate-send option, and review the confirmation before choosing Send now. After sending, open the recipient count to review delivery for each guest.
Schedule for later
Open Send options → Schedule for later and select a future date and time. The composer shows the event timezone. Change it under Settings → Event Details before scheduling; changing it later does not move messages already queued.

Filter the message list to Scheduled or Drafts to find and edit pending work. Scheduled recipient deliveries reserve plan capacity immediately.
