How do you word an invitation when you're already married?
Lead with the marriage in the past tense and invite guests to the celebration: “Sofia Almeida and Andrew Kealoha were married on the fourteenth of February and request the pleasure of your company at a reception in celebration.” The past tense is what tells guests there is no ceremony to attend.
Is it rude to invite people to the reception only?
No, and it is extremely common — small ceremonies with large parties are now the norm rather than the exception. It becomes awkward only when the invitation is vague about which event the guest is invited to, or when a ceremony time appears on a card for guests who aren't invited to it.
Should we explain why the ceremony was private?
One short clause at most: “following a small family ceremony.” Anything longer reads as an apology and invites guests to wonder about their place on the list. Confidence in the wording sets the tone for the evening.
Do reception-only guests still send gifts?
Many do, and gift wording stays off the invitation either way. Put registry details on your wedding website, where guests who want them will look.
What do we call it — a reception, a celebration, or a party?
All three work, and “celebration” is the most flexible when the event doesn't look like a traditional reception. What matters is that the word is not “wedding” on its own, which guests read as a ceremony they are expected to attend.
Can we send this by text?
Yes — reception invitations suit text especially well, because the guest list is often friends rather than distant relatives. Our text message wording page has versions written for a phone, and Text My Wedding collects the replies for you.