Text My Wedding RSVPs are household-based: one invitation link lets a guest respond for everyone included in that party.
Prepare households first
In Guests, use the party of … link to put couples, children, and plus-ones sharing one invitation into the same household. A party member can have no phone and still appear in the RSVP headcount; at least one reachable member should have a valid phone.
Create and send a form
- Open the event dashboard and choose RSVPs.
- Pick a template, such as Wedding RSVP, or choose Start from scratch.
- Enter a name and date. Times, venue, address, and an invitation image are optional; review the Guest preview as you go.
- Save the form. Saving does not send any texts.
- Choose Text it to guests to open the message composer with the invitation and RSVP link filled in.
- Choose recipients, review the wording, and send now or schedule for later.
Each selected household receives its own private link and sees only its invited members.
What guests answer
Each household's RSVP page lists every invited member, and the guest marks each person attending or not attending. There is also one Additional Notes (Optional) box, which guests often use for dietary restrictions. RSVP forms do not have custom questions such as meal choices. To track details like a meal choice yourself, add a custom property to each guest.
Guests can change their answer later: they open the same link, choose View invitation, update their choices, and submit again.
Track and correct responses
Open the RSVP to see attending, not attending, and no-response totals. Search or filter the list, expand a household to see each member and any note they left, and update an individual status when someone responds another way.
Use Invite more guests for late invitations and Resend Invite for a household that needs its link again. Resending does not erase existing responses.
Remind nonresponders
Choose Remind guests who haven’t replied and keep the RSVP link in the reminder. The RSVP workflow targets invited households still needing a response. Check the eligible count and message-limit warning before sending.
Export
Use Export all responses on the RSVPs page, or Export responses within a form, to download a CSV of households, members, attendance statuses, and each household's notes. Compare the file with the totals shown in the app before giving final numbers to the venue or caterer.